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i'll always be zachary's mother....

I'm Zachary's mother. When he was eight years old I experienced my first taste of parental alienation. It was a nightmare. There is nothing as painful as this experience. If you feel as though your spouse is trying to convince someone that you're an unfit mother, or father - it happens to both sides... and then suddenly your child who has always been close to you begins to shy away from you. Your own child may begin to say things that aren't true and proclaim that you are an unfit parent....'re most likely about to experience parental alienation.
There are warning signs. I had lots of them. But I had no idea that anyone could be as extremely abusive as my ex-husband was.

I designed this website about 5 years ago, maybe 6, soon after I became slightly computer literate. I wasn't able to finish it. The pain was still too fresh, to intense to do the site justice.
My son, Zachary is now 23 years old. I've been recovering from post traumatic stress disorder, depression, an eating disorder and living through a case of parental alienation - which I still fel the effects of although he is a grown man.
If you haven't lost a child to it, you'll never know or understand the intensity of the pain you will be forced to endure.

From this point on you'll begin to notice that there are many underlined link words throughout the entire site on every page. You see, parental alienation isn't the only site I've designed through my recovery process. parental alienation is only part of my personal recovery journey.
In the past 5 years I've developed a network of sites called, the emotional feelings network of sites. It includes 28+ sites that are all connected by the underlined link words I've just mentioned.
If you're getting ready to be in the fight of your life for your child, you'll need to know the following information:
  • who you are
  • what your emotional or mental state is or has been
  • how to process very painful emotions & feelings
  • what this divorce and the process of parental alienation will do to your child 

at the very least.

This entire network of sites covers many of life's dysfunctions that could and most likely will be brought to light in your custody fight if parental alienation begins to rear its ugly head.

You need to prepare yourself. I never knew any of this. I was a mess. I had been living in abusive marriages for my entire adult life. My soon to be ex-husband had left me for my friend. He was a cop. This is a very bad combination. No one ever prepares you for this.

Please visit the site a few times so that you can see how it all works in harmony with the other sites in the network. I am in the process of re-working this site to complete it. Hopefully I will be able to tell you my story within the pages.

click here to go to the newly located homepage of parental alienation!

click here to send me an e-mail & check back often for updated information!

Some interesting information was just added to the
more emotional feelings
site - click here to read about those who have experienced abuse from their spouse. If you are in that situation you will need help if your spouse is trying to use parental alienation techniques against you in a custody fight! You will need to get a good lawyer - do not use a public defender. Seek help from a domestic violence shelter to see if they can refer you to a lawyer who deals in domestic violence.

Click on "Resources," last on the list in the left hand side navigation panel to view the websites & other resources used in supplying you the information on this website.
Please, feel free to e-mail me with any questions, suggestions, new info you may have heard that is not on this site - or the name of resources that you have found help with in your area of the US!

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please have a great day & take a few minutes to explore some of the other sites in the emotional feelings network of sites! explore the unresolved emotions & feelings that may be the cause of some of your pain & hurt... be curious & open to new possibilities! thanks again for visiting at anxieties 102!
until next time: consider yourself hugged by a friend today!
til' next time! kathleen